How are you defined? Some of us are defined by where we come from, the college we went to, the job we have, the car we drive, or maybe the accomplishments of our children. Sadly, some of us are also defined by tragedy in our lives. Sometimes tragedy is not our fault, but the result of an accident or being in the wrong place at the wrong time. And sometimes, tragedy is the result of our own poor choices. Many of those in our New Life Program have been defined by their addiction to alcohol and drugs and the toll it has taken on them.